I’m not here to play it safe, look perfect, or pretend I’ve got it all figured out.

I’m here to say the things we’re not supposed to admit out loud, unapologetically, and sometimes mid-spiral. My name’s Melissa, and I built Delusional & Divine for the women who are healing out loud, laughing through the chaos, and learning to love themselves one messy chapter at a time.

I’m here to make you laugh, feel seen, and remind you that you’re never as alone as you think you are.

Because healing doesn’t have to be aesthetic or quiet.

It can be wild. It can be hilarious. It can be sacred and still completely unhinged.

This is where softness meets fire.

Where the girl who cries in the gym mirror also writes the caption that goes viral.

Where we romanticize life and block and re-add the wrong ones.

Where we glow, rebuild, and overshare with purpose.

Welcome to the space where delusion isn’t weakness..it’s intuition that refused to shut up.


Woman with long red hair and glasses smiling in a kitchen, wearing a black top and light blue jeans, standing near a window with blinds, with plants and kitchen appliances in the background.

I’m Melissa but online I’m mostly chaos and clarity in equal parts. I’m a photographer, blogger, mom, and recovering people pleaser with a bad habit of falling for emotionally unavailable men and turning my break downs into punchlines.